This proverb highlights the personal and subjective nature of love. Just as in a bean field where everyone can choose the beans they like, in love, each individual has their own tastes and preferences. There are no universal standards or strict rules that determine what love should be or who deserves to be loved. Everyone must follow their own heart and decide for themselves. This concept is similar to the English proverb ‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder’, emphasizing the idea that perceptions of beauty and, by extension, love, are subjective and vary from person to person.